Do It, Just Don’t Get Caught!

I think one of the biggest problems of the Arab world today is the “Do whatever you want as long as I don’t catch you doing it” mentality and attitude that’s being applied to a wide variety of things we just don’t want to handle.

This problem exists at all levels of our Arab societies, and it’s simply a way of avoiding to face the issues and problems that exist and taking the necessary steps to address or solve them.

An example I’ve seen so many times at the family level: The tough father forbids his son to smoke; but he knows his son is smoking behind his back, he smells the smoke, he finds the traces, his son stinks of smoke; but as long as he doesn’t smoke in front of him and he doesn’t catch him smoking, it’s somehow fine!

Again at the family level: the parents are conservative and don’t want their daughter having any relationships with boys, yet in reality they are more or less sure she has a boyfriend, still it seems to be ok as long as they don’t catch her with him.

At the society and government levels, there are many other examples as well, one of which is homosexuality; As a mainly conservative society, homosexuality is frowned upon in the Arab world, and is even illegal by law in some countries, but the general approach by the society and governments is to ignore it and let gay people do whatever they want as long as they’re not caught doing it.

Prostitution, extremism, bribery, nepotism, and the long list continues, are all other serious issues that are dealt with in the same way in countries around the Arab world.

The same approach is used in so many other places, at so many other levels for so many different issues and problems.

This policy of turning our back on things and acting like they’re not there happening right behind us is surely a failed one, it will only make the situation or problem worse, as we run away from the responsabilities we have, postponing our decisions, and letting our indecision and fear control us.

The fact that a certain issue is a hard one should give us all the more incentive to face it, solve it if it’s a problem, reach a compromise if it’s a sort of conflict, in short find a way to deal with it and move forward.

10 Deadly Sins of Negative Thinking

Another great post on zenhabits, this time about the 10 sins of negative thinking.

The following are 10 thoughts that should trigger an alarm that you’re entering into a negative thinking area:

1. I will be happy once I have _____ (or once I earn $X).
2. I wish I were as ____ as (a celebrity, friend, co-worker).
3. Seeing others becoming successful makes me jealous and resentful.
4. I am a miserable failure

Guess The Movie From The Quotes #2

So let’s give this guessing game another turn…

The following are a number of quotes from a famous and cool movie that has achieved cult film status. See if you can guess the movie from the quotes; should be quite easy for any movie fan.

– I always tell the truth. Even when I lie.
– Every day above ground is a good day.
– In this country, you gotta make the money first. Then when you get the money, you get the power. Then when you get the power, then you get the women.
– All I have in this world is my balls and my word, and I don’t break them for no one.
– You wanna waste my time? Okay. I call my lawyer. He’s the best lawyer in Miami. He’s such a good lawyer, that by tomorrow morning, you gonna be working in Alaska. So dress warm.
– Say goodnight to the bad guy.
– So you wanna dance, Frank, or do you wanna sit here and have a heart attack?

So did you guess what film these quotes are from?

Global Peace Index Ranks Countries By Peacefulness

The first study to rank countries around the world according to their peacefulness and the drivers that create and sustain their peace was released on May 30th. The Global Peace Index studied 121 countries from Algeria to Zimbabwe and its publication comes one week before the leaders of the world’s richest countries gather for the G8 summit in Germany to discuss issues of global concern.

According to this Global Peace Index, Norway is the most peaceful nation and Iraq is the least, just after Israel and Sudan. The survey places Israel at the bottom end of the scale at #119.

The United States is also among the least peaceful nations in the world, ranking 96th between Yemen and Iran.

Tunisia comes in at #39 right after the United Arab Emirates and before Ghana.

The Index aims to provide a quantitative measure of peacefulness that
is comparable over time, and that will hopefully inspire and influence world
leaders and governments to further action.

The main findings of the Global Peace Index are:

– Peace is correlated to indicators such as income, schooling and the level of regional integration
– Peaceful countries often shared high levels of transparency of government and low corruption
– Small, stable countries which are part of regional blocs are most likely to get a higher ranking

Full list & more: First Global Peace Index Ranks 121 Countries
[Via: Sabbah]

Miss Japan Crowned Miss Universe 2007

Riyo MoriRiyo Mori, a 20-year-old dancer from a village near Mount Fuji in Japan, who hopes to someday open an international dance school, was crowned Miss Universe 2007 last night.

Mori, the 56th winner of the title, was given her $250,000 diamond-and-pearl crown by last year’s winner, Zuleyka Rivera of Puerto Rico, watched by a live audience of 10,000 and some 600 million television viewers worldwide.

Mori, the second Japanese woman to win the Miss Universe title will spend her year-long reign traveling the world to speak out on humanitarian issues like poverty and disease.
Under pageant rules, women crowned Miss Universe become advocates for AIDS/HIV research and education.

The only other time Japan had won the pageant was in 1959, when Akiko Kojima became the first Miss Universe from Asia.

Microsoft Surface Computing

Microsoft Surface

Today, Microsoft CEO Steve Ballmer will be taking the wraps off “Milan”, a project five years in the making, and the first of what the company is calling a “surface computer”.

The Microsoft Surface tabletop PC, for which the company has created both the hardware and software, turns an ordinary tabletop into a dynamic surface that provides interaction with all forms of digital content through natural gestures, touch and physical objects.

The surface computer will be able to recognize physical objects and allow hands-on, direct control of content such as photos, music and maps.

Although these computers will be available later this year, they’ll be unaffordable for most people; The expensive components required to allow multiple users to touch the device simultaneously give it a price tag approaching $10,000.

So for the time being, the new product is aimed directly at hotels, retail establishments, restaurants and public entertainment venues.

The demos I saw online of this just blew my mind, and the possibilities for applications that can run on this type of computers are really interesting and cool. I hope that it’ll become affordable for domestic use in the near future, because I for one would love to have one sitting in my living room.

Microsoft Surface Table Computer

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